Survey: 30% of Meat Eaters Won’t Date a Vegetarian

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Add one more dating quirk to the list — bad personal hygiene, weird hair, odd habits — when it comes to whittling down the list of available prospects.

A joint survey conducted by the Today show and Match.com found that out of 4,000 respondents, nearly 30% of meat eaters said that they would not date a vegetarian. Conversely, only 4% of vegetarians said they would not date those that enjoyed their steaks.

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Reasons varied widely. Some meat eaters found it harder to enjoy a meal with their loved one, either for fear of being judged or being able to share in a common interest – like carnivorism – fully. “This is where the relationship happens,” chef and blogger J. Federer told MSNBC about his dating preferences.  “The ability to provide and share food is part of romance, and I just can’t date a person who does not share those moments of life with me.”

And though vegetarianism may be a healthier lifestyle, it is also commonly associated with pickiness – a huge turn-off for about 66% of survey respondents across both camps.

That’s not to say there is no hope for mixed-eating couples. As in any good relationship, reconciling different eating habits just requires respect and compromise.

Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and Match.com’s scientific adviser, tried explaining the preference in evolutionary terms. “It’s so common in the animal world to give food for sex that it’s called the nuptial gift,” she said. “It’s more than just cultural, it’s instinctual.

“Men used to bring home the meat, they were the hunters. If you came in carrying a potato versus a hunk of gazelle, it made a difference. All gifts are not alike.”

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Erica Ho is a contributor at TIME and the editor of Map Happy. Find her on Twitter at @ericamho and Google+. You can also continue the discussion on TIME’s Facebook page and on Twitter at @TIME.

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Betty-Badger Ogletree
Betty-Badger Ogletree

Sharing your life with a vegetarian can make it more interesting-AND more healthy ;). The only complaint I have is I don't go to Red Lobster as much as I used to. Otherwise we still bbq, share family dinners, etc. I just know when we go to a big family gathering that *I* will be the one providing the vegetarian options for my husband, I don't expect the rest of my Southern family to stop using chicken stock in their mashed potatoes or pork in their green beans. 

Juana Gilder
Juana Gilder

a huge turn-off for about 66% of survey respondents across both camps...MayorMoney.blogspot.com

Jim Corcoran
Jim Corcoran

Carnists males are missing out on some of the most beautiful, intelligent and compassionate women in the world! I got mine and I can't imagine life without her anymore.

Why would someone choose to be vegan? To help end world hunger for one! Here are two uplifting videos to help everyone understand why so many people are making this life affirming choice: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v... and http://www.veganvideo.org